Many of our clients have initial questions about how the major decisions for the minor children will be made after the divorce is completed. While joint decision making is conceptually ideal, in many cases requiring the parties to make major decisions together can create disagreements, leading to further litigation. In some cases, a major decision like religion is not at issue but matters like the children’s extracurriculars and medical/dental or therapy treatments often create discord among parents. How does the Court assess whether to award a parent joint or sole decision making for the children?

The court determines whether to
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Kane County Divorce Lawyer: What Makes Divorce with Kids So Stressful?
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Illinois Divorce: One Definition of Parental Alienation:
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Kane County Divorce: Child Custody and New Definitions in Illinois Law
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Illinois Divorce Lawyer: Record Divorces Among Seniors
Ilyssa Panitz freely admits she gave up the financial reins when she got married.
“I did not keep an eye on the money, even though I got married later in life,” says Panitz, 54, who lives in Westchester County, N.Y. “My former spouse worked in accounting and I was taking care of the kids, and I figured ‘This is great’.”
Then, after 13 years of marriage, says Panitz, who hosts the nationally syndicated radio show, “The Divorce Hour with Illyssa Panitz,” she told her husband she wanted to split up. And she realized her ignorance about their money situation “was…
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Illinois Divorce: Best Divorce Law Blogs from Feedspot for 2025
Feedspot ranks the best Divorce blogs from thousands of blogs on the web and ranked by relevancy, authority, social media followers & freshness.
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Illinois Divorce: Tactics of Parental Alienation Control: 4 Revealing Insights
Illinois Divorce: What is the Financial Affidavit used in Illinois Divorces?

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Illinois Divorce: The Early Bates Case: Parental Alienation
It’s always interesting to read the famous Illinois Supreme Court case of In re Marriage of Bates, 212 Ill. 2d 489. As a younger lawyer I was an attorney on this case, and later was subpoenaed by the trial counsel to testify in the case as an expert knowledgeable in the field of Parental Alienation studies. This case is a landmark case in the area of Parental Alienation, as Illinois recognized Parental Alienation as a factor in a child custody decision.
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“E, as proponent of the PAS testimony, proffered three expert witnesses and 136 articles from…
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Illinois Divorce: Signs of Parental Alienation
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Illinois Divorce: Basic Tips to Address a Parental Alienation Campaign
Some basic tips for addressing the appearance of an alienation campaign against you:
1. Recognizing the Signs
- Your child is suddenly distant or hostile without a clear reason.
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Illinois Divorce Lawyer: How is Child Support Now Set in Illinois?
The question of child support seems to be a basic question, but one that sometimes causes confusion. It used to be some years ago that the noncustodial parent was obligated to pay child support to the parent with the “primary custody of the child or children.” Illinois has largely done away with old concepts of child custody and child support, and now centers its laws on allocating more equally the parenting time of the children, and setting support such that both parents’ incomes are factored in.
Child support is now calculated using an “income shares” model, which considers both parents’…
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Illinois Divorce: Use of Generative AI Tools in Family Law
The subject of the use of Artificial Intelligence in medicine, engineering and other professions has become heightened and very contentious. AI, as many people know, has the ability to very quickly aggregate and analyze data (information), and to provide contextual and reasoned answers to questions posed to these computer platforms. The use of AI might be attractive to some lawyers that might use AI to analyze cases, find cases, or to write letters or motions that are submitted to the court.

However, it must be said that Family Law, in particular, is a very specialized and important area of the…
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Illinois Divorce: privacy interests of children in family law cases
Why are the privacy interests of children important in family law cases? A case cited below kind of highlights the need for courts to have the ability to receive information (perhaps from a GAL) in the privacy of chambers with the attorneys (in Illinois, called a “pretrial conference). The reason for this need of hearings, interviews or meetings in chambers is to protect the privacy and personal interests of the minor children, and to not have perhaps sensitive information about a case displayed to the public in open court. Illinois quite effectively acts to protect these privacy interests, in my…
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Illinois Divorce Lawyer: Nonmarital and Marital Property
A “source of funds” rule refers to a legal principle, primarily used in divorce proceedings, that determines whether a property should be classified as marital or separate based on the origin of the funds used to acquire or improve it; essentially, it means that if a spouse contributes premarital funds to purchase a marital asset, they may retain a separate interest in that asset proportional to their contribution.
The husband filed for dissolution after 18 years of marriage, disputing whether two adjacent lots were marital property. One lot included the marital home, and the other had a barn for the wife’s…
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Illinois Divorce Lawyer: Building a Strong Child-Centered Case
WHEN CHILDREN RESIST/REFUSE CONTACT with a parent after the breakup of the family, the cause for the contact resistance can be from various sources. When children resist/refuse contact with a parent and when it is objectively determined that parental alienation is the cause for the contact refusal, the issue is quite serious. This is because the contact refusal is without a rational basis and because it is being fueled by a parent whose own needs and wishes are seen as a substantial cause of the child’s resistance. In many, if not most of these cases, the parent who energizes the…
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