If your child is refusing to go to court-ordered visitation, you are probably caught between wanting to support your child and knowing you are legally required to follow a court order. It is a hard position to be in, and it is more common than many parents realize. The important thing to know is that a child cannot legally refuse court-ordered visitation in Illinois. A court order is binding on the parents, and it is the parents’ job to take real steps to make the visit happen.
Letting the child stay home is not typically something that Illinois family courts will accept. This is true even when your child is angry at their other parent or otherwise resistant. If you are dealing with this situation in 2026, our DeKalb, IL child custody lawyers can help you figure out the right approach, protect your rights, and find a path forward that works for your family.