Divorce can be difficult under any circumstances, but when domestic violence is involved, it is easy to feel overwhelmed. There are some steps you can take during your divorce to protect yourself and your children from a domestic abuser. That being said, if you or your children are in immediate danger, your first priority should always be to find a safe place. Perhaps that is with a trusted friend or relative or a local shelter. If the situation escalates, call 911 if you can do so safely. As soon as you are able, contact an experienced Wheaton, IL family law attorney who has experience with domestic violence and domestic abusers.
What is a Protective Order?
Your first step may be to obtain a protective order that will keep your abusive spouse from contacting you or coming near your home, work, or your child’s school. Your attorney can help you file for a protective order; always keep a copy of the order with you, and if your spouse violates the order, immediately contact the police. It is important to note that protective orders do not always stop violent behavior, and with some abusers, a protective order can increase the danger of the situation. If you fear for your life or the life of your child, never rely exclusively on a protective order.