In Illinois, many judges will advise or even order a divorcing couple to go through mediation instead of court. Mediation provides couples with a private space to discuss their issues in a session overseen by an unbiased third party. Compared to litigation, mediation can be a less time-consuming, costly process, provided that both parties go in with good faith.
Whether you have been ordered to attend mediation or you and your spouse attend a session of your own volition, you should know what to expect beforehand. A Naperville, IL family law attorney at Calabrese Associates, P.C. can help you prepare for mediation and how to effectively speak up for yourself.
DO: Choose a Comfortable Space
Mediation is best conducted in a place where you feel comfortable speaking your mind. If the marital home feels too tense, you can always request a neutral space like a cafe to conduct the negotiations. A courthouse or office space can also serve as a professional environment away from distracting elements or prying eyes.