In the state of Illinois, the best interests of the child are always the overriding concern when determining the allocation of parental responsibilities, parenting time, and which parent will be the primary residential parent (the parent the children live with the majority of the time). The allocation of parental responsibilities determines how the parents will make important decisions for their children.
There is a presumption that both parents will work together to negotiate an agreement that clearly outlines each parent’s rights and decision-making capacity. The major decisions in a child’s life include choices regarding religion, education, health and medical care, and extracurricular activities.
The parents may decide to discuss these decisions and make them together or may split the decision-making between the parents. In either case, there must also be a way of resolving any differences that arise in the future. After determining the allocation of parental responsibilities, one parent is usually designated as the primary residential parent, while the other has parenting time.