It can be difficult for parents who are getting divorced or breaking up to work together. If you are leaving your child’s other parent, there is likely significant conflict between you. Sometimes, the stress of raising a child with significant disabilities can strain the relationship to the point where both parties feel that they would be better off co-parenting while living apart. Creating a parenting plan may be more challenging, as your child’s particular needs must be put first. You know your child and what type of support they need best, so you may find it better to work with the other parent to develop a parenting plan yourselves rather than leaving it to a judge, who may or may not be well-informed about your child’s medical condition. A Naperville, IL, child custody lawyer can help you work together to develop the best possible co-parenting strategies.